Read Some Articles 2day frm newspaper...
Learn to close ur eyes
When u in love,u will always see each other as the perfect one,even the bad habit of the other u can accept it.After u both married,then u both start to fight for small matter.
"Why u put ur thing all over the place?"
"Why u dont flush after goin toilet?"
And alots more arguements.Both starting to show faces to each other,wont care that much for each other,not concerning how each other doing everyday,juz like stranger.Therefore,this is the time,to learn to close ur eyes,learn not to see the weekness.We need to learn to appreciate,to tolerate,to accept.Learn to feel what the other felt,what the other interest is,what the other fear.We must learn to adjust our space for each other,so the love will grow.
The women behind a success man
It is not easy to be a success man,it is even harder to be the women behind this man!If every success man have a women behind them,then what is behind a women?What should she have?What she can have?If a women able to turn herself to a 'mountain',let the man to lean on when they are tire,the lonelyness that hide in this women become unneccesary.There is this kind of women in this world,eventhough they had gone through half the century to receive what they should have after having all the hardness,they still able to smile brightly.
Every success man are being busy,when they have time to stop awhile to rest,they start asking for own private space,this moment the women can only stay aside,alone.
If you had decided to be those kind of women,the first qualification is to be independant,because he wont have much time to take care you;second thing is to be understandable,because what he had promise to do may changed anytime;you have to learn to give without asking any of return,without having the view that your tears can make him listen to you,cause when he able to stay beside you,he already dont hav much energy for another fight.You need to take his happiness as yours,when he success you must cheer for him.If you dont have all this qualification,is better forget about it,find another guy,dont waste your time;if you dont know when to let go,it will only make the man rather stay with his friends every night.
Before you enter into someones life,you should learn what kind of a person you are,what character you want to be.What you want,is it a guy who can help you to be strong or someone who will cover all the hardship for you;but when u had enter someone life,and coincidently it is the peek of his work,you need to have preparation that the lonelyness may be more greater then when you are alone...
PS:This is a translation,original is from Chinese Star Newspaper
