I read sumting frm newspaper 2day,is sumting i think most of us asking--'what is love?',so i dictated it here,but it is in chinese,so i decided to translate it...
WHAT IS LOVE? －－－ Translation by me ^^
Love is something difficult to understand.There is a sentence i once heard and i really like it:a relationship divided into few stages.
The beginning 3 months,is honey moon stage.The relationship is still growing,non can leave the other,this can be call as-not seing for one day is like 3 years had pass by.
The following half year,is a habbit stage.A stage where both party had used to each other,no matter what the other do,the involvement of the another is a habbit,if the other party not here,only make the other felt not comfortable like something is missing.
The last stage is responsibility.The responsibility is to take care each other,is not to fulfill what was once promised but is because ourself cant leave the other.
A relationship can be describe as writting a diary.At first it is something interesting to do,no matter what happen,we will write it down everyday.Then we started write it once in 2/3 days,the words wrote become lesser too.At the end we even forget where is the diary book.
Sometimes really dont know what is love are all about.Why the 'Creater' created such thing in the human mind?Maybe is because of 'Love',then only we can differenciate human being from animal.
Honestly i do agree with this,the stages of a relationship,but some ppl able to maintain the honeymoon stage longer,some who had lost it able to bring it back years later.Some responsibilty occur in the relationship is not only to take care each other,but it is because the children they have,they maintain togather just because it is better for the children.Some relationship when the honey moon stage had passed,they immediate call for an end.Therefore,i only agree the existance of those stages,but i felt that it is different for every single party n every single relationship.Beside what i had dictated here,i had read alot of view regard to this point,as in my opinion,no matter what had used to describe or to define what is love,many of us at the end still doesnt know what is love is all about.Maybe it could be say we only learn about it from experience,from each single heartbroken night..The only thing i know for now,love can be maintain if one appreciate each other...
